A guy was working next to me in the library at the next computer, and he passed me a very flattering note. He picked me up to go to dinner the next night, then stopped at his off-campus apartment to “show you the place.” I was offered alcohol (I was barely 19 and said no), told all about how his family would never accept him dating a white girl for like 20 minutes so I would know that this could never be anything serious, then asked if I wanted to see the bedroom. I said no. I asked to be driven back to campus, which he did, and then asked if he could kiss me in the parking lot of my dorm.
-C.N.